Bigamy is one woman too many........some say that that monogamy is the same

If you reread the words you chose in that first post, you already know the answer. To put if more clearly...get out while you can.

I finally called it off with the gf (well, ex gf) this evening. It's something that I hope I will never have to do again. It was getting to the point where I really had to watch what I say around her. Also, I'm not used to getting questioned on everything I do. Maybe I wasn't ready for a deeper relationship (almost to the point of marriage).

Unfortunately, I really messed up by telling her a lot of things that she wanted to hear (kids, a better future together, etc). I feel really bad for saying that. I felt that I needed to say those things to keep her off my back (basically, one less argument to deal with). I know no relationshipp is perfect and people do argue, but I felt really trapped. Maybe she loved me more than I loved her.

Thanks for reading this.

Daniel

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You did the right thing and will thank yourself later.

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sounds like a case of her wanting to have control. I often find myself in the same situation because I'm too nice or quiet. also, with everything women have to put up with, its hard to find a woman that doesn't have that tough exterior like they want you to know how strong they are, and that you can never control them. maybe I'm just attracted to the wrong kind of women. Grats on getting out of it I should say, love is blinding.

If you think things are tough now go ahead and get married. Then you'll know tough. What is that saying having your cake...Never mind.

Man - you did the right thing...there will be days where you will question the decision that you just made. My best friend once told me - always look forward not backward...and darn it she was right.

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Here's a country song for ya:

she said, "I need sometime to find myself,
I need a little space to think.
maybe we should start seeing other people.
baby, things are moving way to fast for me."
so, i, I picked up what was left of my pride,
and I put on my walking shoes,
and I got up on that high road,
and I did what any gentleman would do..
i, um...

[chorus]
I got a brand new girlfriend.
we went and jumped off the deep end,
flew out to LA for the weekend,
spent the whole day, lyin' on the beach,
wearin' nothin' but a smile,
playin' kissy-kissy, smoochy-smoochy,
talkin' mooshy-mooshy bout nothin'.
man, I think im on to somethin',
yano I feel just like a kid again.
I got a brand new girlfriend.

[verse: 2]
I love it when she calls me butter cup,
laughs and says I left the toilet seat up,
she pops and tosses me a cold beer,
and says my buddies always welcome here.
when I get hungry, she takes me out.
I ride the shotgun like a shitzu hound.
my tails a waggin', my tounges hangin' out,
it makes me wanna shout...

[chorus]

wooo...
cute, cute, cute...

she likes to write our names in the sand.
shes hearing wedding bells and making plans.
shes gonna hang around a while I guess.
she hasnt even told me she loves me yet.

[chorus]

she makes me feel just like a kid again,
I gotta brand new girlfriend.

Wow you lasted 14 months, I would have been gone in 14 minutes. I hate jealous, nosey women

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Field trip..... Vegas anyone ?

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